Today the Pharisees question Jesus again: “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?” Jesus answers by recalling Scripture: from the beginning, God made man and woman to become one flesh, and “what God has joined together shall not be separated.”
Unsatisfied, the Pharisees ask why Moses allowed a “bill of divorce.” Jesus explains that Moses permitted it because of the people’s “hardness of heart,” then adds that anyone who divorces a spouse and marries another commits adultery. These are strong and unsettling words.
Divorce is common today, and in many ways we live in a throw-away society. When something no longer works, we often discard it rather than repair it. This attitude can also affect our relationships. When a marriage, friendship, or other bond becomes difficult, we may be tempted to walk away instead of seeking healing and reconciliation. However, even when a breakdown is inevitable, God does not walk away from us, He is there through all the storms in our lives, waiting for us to take His hand and trust in Him. 
Jesus calls us to take our commitments seriously. Deep, loving commitment is one of the greatest gifts we can give—and receive. Every lasting relationship will face struggles, but marriages, friendships, families, and communities can become among life’s greatest blessings.
Today, think of the people who have loved, forgiven, supported, laughed with, and celebrated with us. Give thanks for them, for the gifts they have shared, and perhaps take time to thank them personally for the gift they continue to be.